Every relationship goes through stages. Where and how each stage develops is ultimately up to each person. While we always hope for the best, we often can’t avoid the inevitable.
strangers, again.
(Source: staypozitive)
i am not one to make irrationale decisions based on situations or on advice from others. i have learned to listen, evaluate, reflect and respond. most importantly I realized that people tend to listen more than talk why because most of the things that they are listening to are 75% nonsense. Our brains tend to filter out the non important issue and focus on important matters that actually make sense. i know one thing that things will get worse before they get better, but when they do just remember who left while your down, & the ones who helped you up. i have learned that people tend to come and go into your life like if your rolling out the last roll of tissue on a tissue roll. sometimes certain people aren’t worth it. sometimes people come into your life briefly just to show you a certain lesson and then disappear, and sometimes people leave just because things change. their view on things change, the way the think, and act are all influenced by everything thats around us. life tend to give us hard times so that way our minds can learn how to deal and adapt. if we don’t go through tough times then life would just be blah wouldn’t it? surround yourself with people that you think are worth it. don’t wait. don’t chase. don’t wonder why. don’t let the hero in your soul perish in lonely frustration for the life you deserve. things happen for a reason so I’ve been told but i make mistakes. No one is perfect. Yes, i’ve hurt others & myself along the way. People will judge me for it. Some people will hate me for it. But I’m still alive to see another day. & when I wake up to a new morning, i have strength in the fact that when I’ve hit rock bottom, the only way to go, is up. Do whatever it takes.
r. ross
Wow he finally stood up for me, us and our friendship. This man along side of me in this picture will forever and always be on my heart. We may not be together romantically and he may not be my boyfriend but the bond that we have can never be broken by anyone. I will forever and always have this mans back.
I don’t know why people keep insistingly hating on our bond. Do they really hate me that much that they keeping saying stuff even after they drove me away. I’m gone…. That’s what they wanted… And they got it!!! They never have to see me again, but please let us have a friendship because if you don’t you will only drive him away. You will lose him as your friend and I know nobody wants that. The people in his world need to respect his decisions and the people in his life. I have never done him dirty or wrong, so why do they hate me so much???
I’ll never understand the mentality of the people in his world. But understand this… I may not be around physically but I am still around. We talk all the time and we are great friends!! You and everyone else in his world will never and can never break our bond. He’s a better man because me. He will be doing amazing things because of my influence. And I’m a better woman because of him. What can you say you have done for him??? And that question goes to everyone in his world.
you must be super ignorant to write such an irrelevant post such as that. come correct next time shorty. keep my personal life, my name and someones thats very important to me out your mouth. if you dont know the story dont assume. im not mad that your happy. good for you. im not hating. have some respect for yourself. if you dont have good things to say dont say it. if u have the mentality of an adult. make moves big shot. dont ponder and wonder about life and other peoples lives. your wasting your time.
i am super stressed today. oh boy. i cant wait to get home already.
williamsburg. bk. #empire #nyc #empirestatebuilding #brooklyn #eastriver #williamsburg (Taken with instagram)
